Back to normal....and still single =)

Haiz....Everythings settle down...

will be a better day for me and u...

Relationship breakdown happens much more often than we would like to admit.

The notion of anything “breaking down” is bad in and of itself, let alone our very own relationship breakdowns.

If u are currently experiencing relationship problems and recognise some of the signs and

signals then u could choose to tackle the problem before u reach the stage of separation

I think u can recover from relationship breakdowns and achieve breakthrough cause u have a strong unwavering commitment to ur relationship.

In fact relationship breakdowns very rarely occur when both parties are fully committed to making the relationship work.

Commitment involves making sacrifices as well as working every minute of every hour in keeping your relationship strong.

After break up doesn't it seem like u keep replaying the last words u heard—
"I don't love you anymore" or
"you're just not right for me--I need a change."
These can be horrible things to hear, especially from someone you love.
If you want to know how to cure a broken heart read on.
But I din say any of this to u….
I just said that “ U are pretty, mature but u are not my cup of tea.
i may have my dream but u are not the girl”…
If this will seems hurt to u I would like to said SORRY…
But u might be more heard when I din said anything…
I hope we can respect our decision…

Although we break up in peace, we can still be best friend...

There is a tool that can help u clear these thoughts from your mind,

essentially reprogramming your mind.

You first write down the negative thought that keeps running through your head. Then what you do is rewrite the phrase so it is something positive for you.

Every time you have the negative thought replace it with the positive thought.

If you have a number of negative thoughts running through your head like a tape loop, it's probably best to work on fixing one at a time.I

suggest writing this down and keeping it with you,

so when the negative thought starts,

u can remember the positive phrase and immediately replace it in your mind.

I realy hope we still can keep in touch…

remain the good friendship just like now…

Now everythings seems to be settle and i am back to normal....

let time pass through la....

everything will be okay...

keep smiling every day...=)